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scroll 0 1 很多人刚到美国时，最喜欢的就是这里的“自由”：没人管你穿什么、几点回家、二十多岁为什么还不结婚。可真正住上几年才发现，美国不是没有社交规则，而是很多规则根本没人明着告诉你。电梯里要聊两句天气，别人夸你一句Amazing却不知道有几分真心，结账时还要面对20%、25%、30%的小费按钮，甚至约会两个月了都不一定能确认“我们到底是什么关系”。所以，真正让留学生抓狂的美式文化，到底还有多少？
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有人受不了美国人无处不在的small talk，明明只是坐个电梯，也要硬聊两句天气。
有人来了几年，还是搞不懂别人嘴里的Amazing到底是真的觉得很好，还是只是随口客气一下。有人每次刷卡看到屏幕上跳出来的20%、25%、30%小费选项，血压都会跟着往上走。还有人最无法理解美国年轻人的situationship，约会、牵手、过夜、一起旅行，什么都做了，最后却告诉你，我们还不算男女朋友。
如果有了孩子，游戏难度还可能继续升级。同学过生日要参加，参加就要准备礼物，自己孩子过生日又要考虑请谁、在哪里办、准备什么goodie bag，原本以为出国以后可以少一点人情往来，结果发现只是把微信红包换成了Target礼品卡。
很多留学生刚到美国时，会觉得这里最大的特点就是自由。穿什么没人管，周末干什么没人问，二十多岁不结婚也不会天天被催。但真正生活几年以后，不少人才慢慢发现，美国当然有自由的一面，却绝对不是一个没有社交规则的地方。有些规则不会有人直接告诉你，也没有人明文规定你必须遵守。可当你真的不配合时，你又能感觉到空气里那一点微妙的尴尬。
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