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scroll 0 1 退休其实很像初为父母：无论提前做了多少准备，真正开始之后，现实总会带来一些意外。
关于退休，人们最常讨论的是存款、投资和养老金。但这些观点大多来自尚未退休的人。资深理财专栏作家 Rob Carrick 一年多前离开了《环球邮报》的全职记者职位。如今他说：退休最大的变化，并不完全发生在银行账户里，而在于一个人如何看待自己的价值、安排突然多出来的时间，以及重新建立起日常生活的节奏。
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退休了，就“没用”了？
退休后，你会发现绝大多数人的反应是真诚的善意——有人替你高兴，有人带着几分羡慕。那种感觉，有点像结婚或生孩子时收到的祝福，身边的人都站在你这边。
但也有另一种声音。有人会若无其事地说一句"哦，我可永远不会退休"。这话听起来无害，潜台词其实是：你现在不再重要了。Carrick 的回应很干脆——他退休到什么程度，完全取决于自己的选择，想做多少工作就做多少。
这种身份层面的冲击，很多人在退休前完全没有预料到。你从一个有职称、有工作单位、有明确社会角色的人，变成一个"已退休"的人。这个标签，在不同人眼里，分量很不一样。很多读者的经历也证实了这一点。
时间多了，未必充实
很多人以为退休等于解放。等到真正退下来才发现：大段大段空出来的时间，并不会自动填满意义。
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